1.He listens to you.

2. He admires you.

3. He is very patient, loving and kind to you.

4. He corrects your mistakes in love.

5. He is proud of you and flaunts you shamelessly.

6. He never asks you for romance, kissing, necking, petting and sex.

7. He believes in your future and will do anything in his power to ensure you fulfil destiny.

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8. He supports your vision.

9. You are in his future plans.

10. He really desires to marry you.

11. He is generous.

12. He gives when he has.

13. You love him too.

14. You admire him -a lot.

15. You respect him and loves to listen to him and understand him.

16. You have peace of mind and joy each time you are with him.

17. His thought floods you with peace.

18. You believe in his vision and you are both actively working together to make it happen.

19. You have compassion for him.

20. You ignore other men and focus on him only.

21. You share same chemistry.

22. You joyfully look forward to being his wife.

There you go honey! Congratulations if you have found him. You are one of the lucky few who found and is getting married to their soul mate. Now with this you can see 20 signs that you have met Mr. right

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1. Frankness

Real fellowship, whether in a marriage, a friendship, or your church, depends on frankness. Infact, the tunnel of conflict is the passageway to intimacy in any relationship. Until you care enough to confront and resolve the underlying barriers, you will never grow close to each other.

When conflict is handled correctly, we grow closer to each other by facing and resolving our differences. self-importance, smugness, and stubborn pride destroy fellowship faster than anything else. Pride builds walls between people; humility builds bridges.

2. Humility :

Humility Is the oil that smoothes and soothes relationships. That’s why the Bible says, “Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another.” The proper dress for fellowship is a humble attitude. The rest of that verse says, “. . . because, God opposes the proud.

This is the other reason we need to be humble: Pride blocks God’s grace in our lives, which we must have in order to grow, change, heal, and help others. We receive God’s grace by humbly admitting that we need it. 

The Bible says anytime we are prideful, we are living in opposition to God! That is a foolish and dangerous way to live. You can develop humility in very practical ways: by admitting your weaknesses, by being patient with others’ weaknesses, by being open to correction, and by pointing the spotlight on others.

Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Humility is thinking more of others. Humble people are so focused on serving others, they don’t think of themselves.

3. Courtesy:

Courtesy is respecting our differences, being considerate of each other’s feelings, and being patient with people who irritate us. The Bible says, “We must bear the ‘burden’ of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others.”

One key to courtesy is to understand where people are coming from. Discover their history. When you know what they’ve been through, you will be more understanding. Instead of thinking about how far they still have to go, think about how far they have come in spite of their hurts. 

Another part of courtesy is not downplaying other people’s doubts. Real relationship  happens when people know it is safe enough to share their doubts and fears without being judged. This will help you spice up a relationship

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4.Be confidential 

Only in the safe environment of warm acceptance and trusted confidentiality will people open up and share their deepest hurts, needs, and mistakes. Confidentiality does not mean keeping silent while your brother or sister sins. It means that what is shared in your group needs to stay in your group, and the group needs to deal with it, not gossip to others about it.

God hates gossip, especially when it is thinly disguised as a “prayer request” for someone else. God says, “Gossip is spread by wicked people; they stir up trouble and break up friendships.”  Gossip always causes hurt and divisions, and it destroys fellowship, and God is very clear that we are to confront those who cause division among

Christians.

Sympathize with their feelings. Use your ears more than your mouth. Before attempting to solve any disagreement you must first listen to people’s feelings.

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Who is a friend? 

A friend is a well known person with whom you have a close relationship with. They share the same values and beliefs. Friendship doesn’t just spring out, it always start out first as acquaintances with the other person. 

A lot of times, as humans with a busy lifestyle, we are always looking for ways to keep up with our friends. Hence, the big question. How do you build a long lasting relationship with your friends: 

Here are a few tips to help you build quality relationship with your friends:

1.Prioritize your friends:

In order to build quality relationship with your friends, you need to make them a priority. You need to make out time for them even if you have a tight schedule, a hello during your lunch break at work won’t hurt. Make time to keep in touch, respect and support your friends.

2.Communication:

You can’t have quality friendships without communication. This is the bedrock of any relationship, you need to be in communication with your friends. The longer you stay away from your friends without proper communication, the friendship gradually hits a rock. You don’t have to talk to your friends everyday but you need to communicate occasionally, it could be once in a week. 

3. Be real:

Nobody wants to have fake friends. Be real, be you. If you notice a bad behavior amongst your friends, you call their attention to it. You don’t have to gossip about your friends at their back. You are their friends, always be genuine in relating with your friends. This is Important for quality friendships.

4. Openness helps to create trust in building quality friendships. whn we are ope, we get hte best version of our friends because they will be open to us as we to them.

5. Confidentiality:

Know how to keep secrets. Your friends secrets should be secrets. You shouldn’t make their secrets a topic for discussion with other people. Secondly, never betray your friends trust by discussing their matters with another person. Betrayals kills quality friendships.

6. Support:

Learn to always support your friends. Although, you may not have the whole money in the world. But you can support your friends by showing up for them. If they have businesses you could refer people to them and when they are have an event show up to celebrate them. Celebrate their wins and be genuinely happy for them. Quality friendships involves supporting one another.

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An unserious person is not looking for a serious relationship even when he claims to, he only wants fun and leave you as soon as he is done.

Are you seeing some signs already, here are a few guides to recognising a joker:

Here are a few guides to knowing an unserious guy:

6. He doesn’t want to be accountable, he never wants anything binding on him, zero commitment. 

7. He hides you from the important people in his life. He never openly talks about you, his family and friends don’t know anything about you or he always introduces you as a friend or colleague. 

8. He relates with the opposite sex as a free that is still available. 

9. He never wants to have anything to do with your family.

10. He always asks and never gives. He is always about you helping him. 

A joker will only waste your time, emotions and commitment.

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It’s good to be happy but it takes wisdom to keep the relationship.

Here are a few tips to know before you say yes to that guy.

1. Discover and build yourself: You need to discover yourself first before you start discovering your partner,

you must know your strength, your weaknesses, your gifts, your abilities first.

Also build yourself, you don’t have to wait till marriage before you start building yourself.

Start now, work on your character, be financially stable. You can’t choose to be a liability to your partner.

2. Build on the word of God: As a Christian if you choose to follow the word,

a lot of things won’t be hard for you in marriage. There is a way you will walk with God that

if he instructs you to do anything it won’t be hard for you. You must learn to be slow to speak,

you must have self control, marriage isn’t going to change anyone instead it amplifies things.

3. Get counsel: Counselling cannot be over emphasized,

you can’t claim to know it all. It’s better to seek counselling.

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