1.He listens to you.

2. He admires you.

3. He is very patient, loving and kind to you.

4. He corrects your mistakes in love.

5. He is proud of you and flaunts you shamelessly.

6. He never asks you for romance, kissing, necking, petting and sex.

7. He believes in your future and will do anything in his power to ensure you fulfil destiny.

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8. He supports your vision.

9. You are in his future plans.

10. He really desires to marry you.

11. He is generous.

12. He gives when he has.

13. You love him too.

14. You admire him -a lot.

15. You respect him and loves to listen to him and understand him.

16. You have peace of mind and joy each time you are with him.

17. His thought floods you with peace.

18. You believe in his vision and you are both actively working together to make it happen.

19. You have compassion for him.

20. You ignore other men and focus on him only.

21. You share same chemistry.

22. You joyfully look forward to being his wife.

There you go honey! Congratulations if you have found him. You are one of the lucky few who found and is getting married to their soul mate. Now with this you can see 20 signs that you have met Mr. right

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1. Frankness

Real fellowship, whether in a marriage, a friendship, or your church, depends on frankness. Infact, the tunnel of conflict is the passageway to intimacy in any relationship. Until you care enough to confront and resolve the underlying barriers, you will never grow close to each other.

When conflict is handled correctly, we grow closer to each other by facing and resolving our differences. self-importance, smugness, and stubborn pride destroy fellowship faster than anything else. Pride builds walls between people; humility builds bridges.

2. Humility :

Humility Is the oil that smoothes and soothes relationships. That’s why the Bible says, “Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another.” The proper dress for fellowship is a humble attitude. The rest of that verse says, “. . . because, God opposes the proud.

This is the other reason we need to be humble: Pride blocks God’s grace in our lives, which we must have in order to grow, change, heal, and help others. We receive God’s grace by humbly admitting that we need it. 

The Bible says anytime we are prideful, we are living in opposition to God! That is a foolish and dangerous way to live. You can develop humility in very practical ways: by admitting your weaknesses, by being patient with others’ weaknesses, by being open to correction, and by pointing the spotlight on others.

Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Humility is thinking more of others. Humble people are so focused on serving others, they don’t think of themselves.

3. Courtesy:

Courtesy is respecting our differences, being considerate of each other’s feelings, and being patient with people who irritate us. The Bible says, “We must bear the ‘burden’ of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others.”

One key to courtesy is to understand where people are coming from. Discover their history. When you know what they’ve been through, you will be more understanding. Instead of thinking about how far they still have to go, think about how far they have come in spite of their hurts. 

Another part of courtesy is not downplaying other people’s doubts. Real relationship  happens when people know it is safe enough to share their doubts and fears without being judged. This will help you spice up a relationship

Read 10 ways to know if a guy is not serious about you.

4.Be confidential 

Only in the safe environment of warm acceptance and trusted confidentiality will people open up and share their deepest hurts, needs, and mistakes. Confidentiality does not mean keeping silent while your brother or sister sins. It means that what is shared in your group needs to stay in your group, and the group needs to deal with it, not gossip to others about it.

God hates gossip, especially when it is thinly disguised as a “prayer request” for someone else. God says, “Gossip is spread by wicked people; they stir up trouble and break up friendships.”  Gossip always causes hurt and divisions, and it destroys fellowship, and God is very clear that we are to confront those who cause division among

Christians.

Sympathize with their feelings. Use your ears more than your mouth. Before attempting to solve any disagreement you must first listen to people’s feelings.

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In our previous episode, “Are these life pressings worth it“?
We spoke about learning more about trust and this is what we would be focusing on in this episode

Some of the Evidence and Fruit of Trusting in God are;

1) Gratitude
2) Patience
3) Progressive Actions
4) Peace
5) Joy
6) Preparation
7) Affirmation/Speaking in line with what you know that he has already done.

1) Gratitude –

To be Grateful is to think in a positive light of all that you have received in comparison with where you are coming from.
Grateful is birthed through reflection of where you could have been and where you have been versus where you currently are.
Comparison with another person is usually the killer of Gratitude and there is a reason why it is called “foolish” because only God and the person truly knows how they got there.
Sometimes people are generous enough to share, but you can never get the full perspective unless you are seeing from God’s View.
So Cultivate Gratitude.

Think of where you are or even could have been to where you currently are and where you are headed.
Search God’s Word to give you Proof of His promise to you and his Goodness in your life.
Bask in His Kindness of Loving you despite your Imperfections and continue to surrender your Life daily in Gratitude to HIM.

2) Patience

Many times we jump on stories in the Bible like Joseph, David and how long they waited.
The sad part is that most never really fully comprehend the details of what waiting must have looked like to these Men and what they should be doing to be like these Men.
These Men are just sweet to talk about, but it is an entirely different case “waiting like them”.
Just like the Principle of seed time and Harvest that God himself created, waiting is inevitable to winning. (Highlight)

You cannot WIN without your own turn of waiting, this is because there must be a private work that God must do in you for the Public Intervention that your Life mist deliver.
It doesn’t matter what you are waiting for.
But in your specific list.
And for some of you reading this, God has given you a witness to hold on, on that thing, but no, you are all over the place jumping around.
There is a posture to waiting and we have addressed this in previous episodes.
What I want to focus on here is that, Waiting on God actively, is a proof that you trust him, even when the World thinks it is impossible.

3) Progressive Actions

Someone may argue, “You have your trust in God; I have my good deeds.” Well, show me your trust in God without good deeds, and I will show you my trust in God by my good deeds!

James 2:18 FBV

This is a continuity from point number 2.
Except God tells you explicitly to do absolutely nothing, there is always progressive actions and steps that can be taken that proves that you trust in God.
Always!
Say for instance you are expecting to get hired by a Foreign Company and you get to work from Home.

What progressive step can you take?

You can Open a Dollar/Pounds or whatever currency account for instance.
If you are trusting God to get admission into school, your posture is to prepare, read, study, enquire etc.
There a progressive steps and postures that can be taken in different aspect of your life to prove that you are trusting God.
The Question is, do you really trust God?
Because if you truly do, you will take those postures.
Even if it seems like it “doesn’t work out” in the way you expected, there are rewards that God has for people who prove that they trust him by their actions.

4) Peace.

Peace is banking on God after you know that you have done your own part and not blinking an eye in fear of what may or may not happen.
You can never have peace, if you are trying to do only what God can, should and will.
Also your lack of peace is a proof that you don’t trust God to keep his part of his own bargain as you have your own part.
It could even be because you haven’t kept your own part.
Take for instance the money you keep in your bank.
After you do your part of paying the money in, keeping your pin safe and everything that concerns you, do you now wake up everyday having heart palpitations because you have N100k or N100million in the bank?
You don’t!
You Bank on “Your Bank” because you know that whatever happens, you can never lose, even if Robbers attack the bank, no stories can be told to you for their name and reputation sake.
Why don’t you also “BANK on GOD”?
Why are you so Confident of your GTB, Zenith or even PiggyVest and you cannot even put as little as that same trust on God?
This is a serious question to ask yourself and start reconsidering your ways.
Ask for forgiveness in the way you have put your trust in Men more than God and change those ways to Experience God’s Peace Fully.

5) Joy.

Joy is a Fruit of the Spirit not a result of the happenings in your environment.
It’s an Internal Stirring and Evidence that you have God’s Spirit not an External activity to prove that you are “Joyful”.
It’s where this generation has lost it.
They try to do everything externally to stay joyful.
Go to the Spa, Go Out, Jump, See a Movie, Watch Comedies, etc.
Those things are “External Therapies” that can make you enjoy daily life experiences, absolutely nothing wrong with them.
But, JOY must come from you to your environment, not from your environment to you.
You know why?
Because God’s Spirit resides on the Inside of YOU!

6) Preparation

Preparation could be thought to be progressive action, but they are slightly different even though they could be the same thing in some instances.
The Preparation in your journey of trusting God is more about “Your Mindset” beyond physical actions.
Preparation examples could be;
Reading several books, taking courses, being under a Mentorship System, Volunteering a space ahead of your future, organizing your schedule to allow for the opportunity you are expecting in your life.
It is a very very Mental Activity which draws from Spiritual promises.

7) Affirmation/Speaking in Line with what you are expecting.

Even though this is expected to be a “no brainer” many people still unfortunately fall victims of this.
They say they want Financial expansion yet, they are always talking and elevating the lack and problems rather than opportunities.
They say they are trusting God to get married, but they keep saying Men are Scarce.
It is impossible to claim that you trust God when your speakings are always ANTI-Scriptural!
Even Atheist know this!
The power of words and they utilize it, how much more we believers????

WONDIVIAN,
God is more committed to you than you are more committed to yourself.

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Who is a friend? 

A friend is a well known person with whom you have a close relationship with. They share the same values and beliefs. Friendship doesn’t just spring out, it always start out first as acquaintances with the other person. 

A lot of times, as humans with a busy lifestyle, we are always looking for ways to keep up with our friends. Hence, the big question. How do you build a long lasting relationship with your friends: 

Here are a few tips to help you build quality relationship with your friends:

1.Prioritize your friends:

In order to build quality relationship with your friends, you need to make them a priority. You need to make out time for them even if you have a tight schedule, a hello during your lunch break at work won’t hurt. Make time to keep in touch, respect and support your friends.

2.Communication:

You can’t have quality friendships without communication. This is the bedrock of any relationship, you need to be in communication with your friends. The longer you stay away from your friends without proper communication, the friendship gradually hits a rock. You don’t have to talk to your friends everyday but you need to communicate occasionally, it could be once in a week. 

3. Be real:

Nobody wants to have fake friends. Be real, be you. If you notice a bad behavior amongst your friends, you call their attention to it. You don’t have to gossip about your friends at their back. You are their friends, always be genuine in relating with your friends. This is Important for quality friendships.

4. Openness helps to create trust in building quality friendships. whn we are ope, we get hte best version of our friends because they will be open to us as we to them.

5. Confidentiality:

Know how to keep secrets. Your friends secrets should be secrets. You shouldn’t make their secrets a topic for discussion with other people. Secondly, never betray your friends trust by discussing their matters with another person. Betrayals kills quality friendships.

6. Support:

Learn to always support your friends. Although, you may not have the whole money in the world. But you can support your friends by showing up for them. If they have businesses you could refer people to them and when they are have an event show up to celebrate them. Celebrate their wins and be genuinely happy for them. Quality friendships involves supporting one another.

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1. SEO(Search Engine Optimizations): SEO is in high demand. 

Search engine optimization means taking a piece of online content and optimizing it so search engines like Google show it towards the top of the page when someone searches for something.

2. UI/UX Design: This is the design of user interfaces for machines and software, such as computers, home appliances, mobile devices, and other electronic devices, with the focus on maximizing usability and the user experience. Its a high demand skill in tech and can be done as student.

3. Digital marketing: Another name for digital marketing is online marketing. It is the promotion of brands to connect with potential customers using the internet and other forms of digital communication. This is one of the 4 high demand skill to have as a student as its less time consuming. It can be combined with school work.

4. Video Editing: Video editing is the process of manipulating and rearranging video shots to create a new work. 

Video editing is the process of structuring and presenting all video information, including films and television shows and video advertisements. This is an in demand skill in the content creation space

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As much we take care of physical health we must also take care of our financial health because if not properly taken care of it can affect your physical likewise your mental health.

Firstly, stop procrastinating. Start focusing on your financial health today. They said the easiest way to overcome your fears is to face it. Start moving slowly to learn and understand your financial plan.

You can identify your goal. Know where your money is going and why. Establish a money vision and set realistic goals to achieve it. Probably you want to build your own house or increase your your standard of living etc.  Identify where you are financially and where you want to be, then you can create a plan to achieve it.

Secondly, many women get too comfortable knowing there’s a strategy in place without taking the time and effort to understand what that strategy is. Don’t invest or make financial decision without knowing what it entails. Seek out information. It’s essential because it build your  confidence around your finances and improve your financial literacy. If you don’t know where to start, you can start by reading  an article or two on personal finance topics that interest you or listen to a podcast about money.  If you’d prefer to work with someone in person, you can choose to work with a variety of financial professionals.

You can even hire a money coach. Just make sure you get references, review the background of the person you choose to work with and ask about how they make money.

Thirdly, if you’re worried about getting into debt or coming out of debt, you can begin with making a list of all of your income sources and monthly take-home pay, and all your debts. If you’re living paycheck to paycheck, you want to close the gap between your income and expenses. Start by tracking your spending for at least a month. Then, create a budget prioritizing saving – even if you can only save a small amount to start.

When you look at how you spend every amount, there’s a good chance you’ll see places where you can easily cut back on your spending.

Furthermore, in case you’re worried about losing your job,  preparing an emergency budget and having an emergency fund to cover at least 3-6 months (or more) of expenses are the first things you should do to overcome your fear of losing your job. It’s a mistake to think you can find another job quickly unless you have a substantial amount of money saved.

When it comes to your career, try to attend professional development opportunities and conferences to grow your knowledge and skills. Take  advantage of networking opportunities when possible. Review your resume and make sure it is up to date. Also, this is a good time to reflect. Would other people say you’re a difficult colleague to work with? Make attitude adjustments if necessary. Consider how to build multiple streams of income while you are still working. If you’ve thought about starting a business or buying a rental property, the income you’ll earn can reduce the stress you’ll feel if you lose your job.

Also, Discussing money with partner/ husband. While you may intuitively understand that open conversations with others about financial topics are beneficial, taking the initiative can be difficult. When it comes to money discussions with your partner, it can be even harder. But if you’re in a relationship you see it continuing, then  it’s time for the financial discussion.

If you envision picking out rings soon, are already engaged, are wanting to become roommates, or buy a house together, you absolutely want to start the money conversation now to avoid potentially significant financial problems. Initiating a conversation about your finances with your partner might be difficult at first, but it will be a whole lot easier now than later.

Start by scheduling a “money date” with your partner and create a list of topics to discuss. Cover what you can in the first discussion and then plan future money dates to cover additional questions or update answers to previous ones.

Here are some questions to help you start:

Do you consider yourself a spender or a saver?

Do you have any debt? How much?

What is your credit score?

Do you pay your credit card balance in full every month?

Have you ever experienced bankruptcy?

Do you have a savings account or emergency fund? What will you do in a financial emergency if you don’t?

Do you follow a budget or track your expenses?

What are your short and long-term financial goals?

Do you want to rent or own a home?

What’s the best financial advice you’ve ever heard?

How do you measure your financial success? etc.

  Normalize the topic of money by having regular financial check-ins.

Continuing learning about personal finance and growing your financial prowess together. Maintaining an open money dialogue with your partner keeps you on the same page, and prevents major financial surprises.

It can motivate you to improve your finances and work toward specific financial goals together.

Lastly, getting sick or hurt and unable to work fears, you think this fear is irrational. Whether you have sick days at your job or not, it can be financially devastating if you or a family member have a severe illness or injury. You might be able to cover your expenses for a short time, but the longer you’re out of work, the more difficult things will get. This is another example where having a substantial emergency fund is critical to your financial health.

It’s hard to put money into an account you hope you’ll never use. But your future self will thank you if you or a loved one gets sick or injured, causing you to be out of work.

Sick leave may cover your salary for some time, and some employers offer some level of disability insurance as part of their employee benefits package.

But don’t assume you have coverage. If the illness or injury happens at work, you may be entitled to worker’s compensation benefits. While it may be expensive, consider purchasing private disability insurance to minimize your risk and protect at least a portion of your income.

Consistent reinforcement of these ideas increases both financial understanding and confidence to overcome money fears.

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An unserious person is not looking for a serious relationship even when he claims to, he only wants fun and leave you as soon as he is done.

Are you seeing some signs already, here are a few guides to recognising a joker:

Here are a few guides to knowing an unserious guy:

6. He doesn’t want to be accountable, he never wants anything binding on him, zero commitment. 

7. He hides you from the important people in his life. He never openly talks about you, his family and friends don’t know anything about you or he always introduces you as a friend or colleague. 

8. He relates with the opposite sex as a free that is still available. 

9. He never wants to have anything to do with your family.

10. He always asks and never gives. He is always about you helping him. 

A joker will only waste your time, emotions and commitment.

In a previous post we talked about how to know a guy is not serious about you. Check it out here.

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Here are a few guides to controlling burnouts: 

1. Know what makes you stressed out:

You have to identify the things that easily stress you, it could be your career, lack of funds, bills, societal pressures etc.

After identifying the cause of the stress, look for solutions. You don’t have to come with answers to your stress in a day, you can take it one step at a time. 

2. Have a constant routine:

Having a schedule helps you getting unnecessarily tired or worked up. You don’t have to worry about what next to do. Setup a plan and put reminders on your calendar, you can also write them down on sticky notes.

3. Get enough quality sleep:

You can’t choose not to sleep and not feel tired. Always give yourself time to rest properly. 

4. Delegate duties:

You don’t have to be the one doing all the work, if your kids are matured enough give them duties to do, that way you don’t feel worked up.

5. Plan ahead:

Always plan ahead be it what to wear or meals, always have a plan.

Which of these would you be trying out?

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Joy Babatayo 

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SEO is in high demand. 

Search engine optimization means taking a piece of online content and optimizing

it so search engines like Google show it towards the top of the page when someone searches for something.

 A lot of companies are trying to bring in organic views to their websites and

products so it’s made up of people who are driven to find the answer for the questions they’re asking.  

2. UI/UX Design:

This is the design of user interfaces for machines and software, such as computers,

home appliances, mobile devices, and other electronic devices, with the focus on

maximizing usability and the user experience. 

It centres on creating user-friendly interfaces that enable users to understand how to use complex technical products. 

3. Digital marketing:

This is also known as online marketing and it is the promotion of brands to connect

with potential customers using the internet and other forms of digital communication.

4. Video Editing:

Video editing is the process of manipulating and rearranging video shots to create a new work. 

Video editing is also used to structure and present all video information, including

films and television shows and video advertisements.

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Joy Babatayo 

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