Are you looking for signs that your man is the right partner for you?
Here are 5 signs to look out for:
- 1. HE PRIORITIZES YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Your partner in life should be someone for whom your relationship means everything. Marriage is hard; there’s no sugarcoating it. While it can be absolutely incredible and will be responsible for some of the greatest blessings of your life, marriage also demands effort and sometimes it is not fun or easy. Find yourself a man who knows this and is willing to fight to keep his marriage at the center of everything in his life. (Commitment and priority are one of our top pieces of relationship advice for couples).
A sign of his love for you is also that he makes time for you. Spending quality time with the one you love is essential to staying close and connected, and demonstrating that he wants to make time for you is an excellent sign.
- 2. HE CARES ABOUT YOUR FAMILY
One of the best qualities of a loving husband (or potential husband) is how he treats his own family as well as your own. They always say that you can see how a man will treat you based on how he treats his own mother, but I think that his approach toward your side of the family may be just as important.
Does he care about them as people? Does he make an effort, even if he doesn’t get along easily with your family members? Does he try to love them simply because you do? This is a great sign that he’ll make a strong husband. Let’s face it, families are not easy. If your boyfriend shows that he is making real effort with your family, this is a sign of a keeper.
Plus, this can show you what life will be like. You can certainly marry someone who doesn’t get along with your family, but these relationships are a major part of your life. If there is harmony (or at least an attempt at harmony) this is going to make for a much smoother ride in the future.
- 3. HE TAKES CARE OF YOU WHEN YOU’RE SICK
One of the signs he’s husband material (as well as one of the signs he wants to marry you) is his ability to care for you in sickness and in health (literally). Does your man bolt at the first signs of a cold? That’s not great.
But if he is there for you when you need physical or emotional support, such as when you’re down with the flu, this is essential. You want a person who will be there for you throughout the years, and who can handle the selflessness required of caring for another. After all, you’re planning to grow old together.
- 4. YOU TRUST HIM ABSOLUTELY
Your husband will be your teammate in love, life, and family. If you trust him without reservation, this is a fantastic sign that he is marriage material. Not only does this indicate that you can trust him to be honest and forthright, it lets you know that he will honor his marriage commitments. In a world with a frighteningly high divorce rate, this is an important quality to look for in a spouse.
- 5. HE SHARES YOUR VALUES
No matter what kind of person you’re dating, if you don’t share similar values for your lives, you’re going to struggle in your marriage. Finding a man who possesses strong values and ideals for his life is key to finding success and if the two of you align in this way, you’ve truly got the basis for a happy marriage.
Another of the signs he’s husband material is if he is very clear and intentional about sharing his values with you. He knows that this is an essential ingredient for a successful marriage, so if he’s marriage material, he’s gonna be showcasing that to you to his best abilities!
You should definitely make sure that the two of you discuss things like your values, dreams, and visions for your lives, too. These are things that have a lot of importance in your love relationship, and you’ll want to take time to hammer those issues out and try to get on the same page.
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